Wednesday, January 25, 2012

it's not like that. . .

Isn't it lovely how people hear things without your knowledge of knowing it? mistake #1 asking a boy i work with to the school dance.  Mostly everyone whispering around me that I like him. Some of them actually brave enough to ask and confront me about it. I cleared the air with the gossip queen of the world at work that we are clearly JUST FRIENDS. I told it simply and how it was, we are just friends everyone thinks we like each other or we are dating, because we always do bagger chores together and we always get carts together. Well you see, it's not like that, it's more of a best friend basis. We're like BFF, but boy and girl instead of girl & girl. We have a lot in common and we like to hang out and such. We're really good friends and that is probably what we will only ever be. It's as simple as that. Sure we hang out when we don't have to work, but other than that we like doing stuff at work together because we like to waste time talking to each other. We enjoy each other's company, is that such a crime? And if it so be that this weekend we go to the dance and have a spectacular time together and we fall in love, (which isn't likely) then it is what it is. But if nothing happens and we just have a good time as friends would at a dance together then so be it. I'll be fine with whatever. If we go back to our same normal routines and back to our normal lives after and just see each other at work from now on, then i'll be fine with it. And i'm sure he will to.  So the next time someone at your work, school, or next social hour comes up to you and asks if two people are dating, please respond "I don't know, maybe you should ask them." Because honestly its better to go to the root of the problem rather than scrapping off the top of the problem. It's maybe its none of your business what is going on in other people's lives.
but seriously, don't just assume things, because you all know what that does. (:

Now that the air is sort of cleared up. I would like to announce that i own the Mumford & Sons album Sigh No More. I love it. I harmonize to it all the time. welcome to my car on the way to and from school!



have a great day (:

xoxox
Mariah



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